The problem is you have spurts where you feel motivated and disciplined and then at the first sign of a “dip” you throw in the towel. You have perfectionist and all or nothing behaviors. When you break your “perfect” cycle, it is very hard for you to get back into your routines. This makes your inner critic get super loud.
This makes you feel detached and lethargic and straight up frustrated. You can see this pattern so clearly but you can’t seem to do anything about it. You worry that your relationship might not last due to lack of connection and intimacy. You wake with some level of anxiety and it takes a very long time to get to a place where you can just get up and face the day.
The bottom line is, just because you missed one step doesn’t mean you should throw yourself down the stairs. You shouldn’t have to hate yourself into transformation. This is why setting big huge lofty goals isn’t the answer.
A live 10-week 1:1 container for the badass business woman who wants to experience a wildly abundant lifestyle from a state of ease, peace and pleasure.
That’s where UNLEASHED
comes in...
That’s me! I’m in!
These beliefs get stuck and our brain freezes that moment in time.
But in this practice you get to show her what the truth is and that she is safe and loved and can heal. You're going to begin shifting those patterned responses.
As you start to train your nervous system to pendulum to regulation, a whole new receiving paradigm will open up within you. Your capacity to step into your expanded body will widen — and your life & business will hit the G spot.
Inner child unburdening. The majority of our imprinting began before the age of seven years old.
Because we are tapping into our desires from the landscape of our nervous system — we integrate or “trick” the mind into believing that it’s ours right now. (The mind doesn’t know the difference between fake and reality.)
This rewiring will amplify the speed of your manifestations AKA it will go from vision board to reality.
We tap into your five senses reality.
When you can feel the aliveness of the vision you're moving toward in your body, you begin to move toward it. When you're focusing on what you want, you move out of the negativity bias that our culture is conditioned by.
This simple but powerful exercise will anchor you into your most abundant timeline, so you can slipstream into the pleasure and prosperity you crave.
Identify (and CLAIM) your core desires and why this is important in your life and leadership.
Here’s how you're going to take yourself from burnout to BLISS:
The method used in this container offers liberation, inviting you to free yourself from your limiting beliefs and conditioning.
We’ll work with all levels of the nervous system so you can begin to integrate that you are free from the paradigm that you need to be at war with yourself, and instead, trust that all parts of you are conscious and alive.
Your transformation will come from bringing all parts of yourself into integrated and deep alignment.
We’ll utilize things like breathwork, sounding, movement, mindfulness, and energy in this container.
There are 10 live sessions within Unleashed and you’ll want to set aside at least 1-½ hours for each session. (All calls are live and not recorded)
There’s an option to do 1 live Q&A each month as well.
What you’ll accomplish inside UNLEASHED…
Discover Your Desires
Reveal your core desires and learn how to unleash them without hesitation.
Tap into the wisdom and signals of your body, gaining tools for deeper self-awareness and emotional regulation, essential for nurturing your creative and erotic sovereignty.
Connecting with Your Body
Start to understand and heal the influences of feminine and masculine energies in your life.
This exploration can free you from limiting patterns and foster a more empowered and authentic expression in your life and career.
Being Your Best Caregiver
Cultivate a deeper understanding and kindness towards your younger self.
This exploration is vital for healing past experiences and building a foundation of self-love and resilience, empowering you to thrive.
Inner Child Awareness
You’ll learn the art of discerning and releasing elements in your life that hinder your growth, while consciously inviting and embracing what brings you true joy.
This process paves the way for a more fulfilling and abundant life, aligning your personal ecosystem with your deepest desires and aspirations.
Ecology of Thriving
You'll delve into recognizing and embracing your inherent worthiness, learning to fully accept and receive the love, success, and abundance you deserve.
This step enables you to step into your full power and potential, and live a life aligned with your truest sense of self.
Worthiness & Deserving
You have a wide array of emotions and experiential states available to you in your nervous system and your nervous system is capable of unbelievable bliss, gratitude, pleasure, magic, and visionary experiences. It’s time to unlock that!
Emotional Liberation
You'll discover the connection between self-pleasure and personal empowerment, learning techniques for experiencing full-body orgasms that elevate your sense of self and deepen your connection to your body.
This exploration underscores the significance of pleasure as a source of strength and a vital component of your overall well-being and creative expression.
Pleasure & Power
You'll begin shedding old conditioning and awakening to your true, unique essence.
This gradual process of self-realization will deepen your understanding of your own spiritual presence, allowing you to embrace and celebrate the wholeness and authenticity of who you truly are.
Letting Go
Enrich your relationships by cultivating a deeper connection to your desires and authentic self, this enhances intimacy and creates a life filled with more love and pleasure.
This process will transform your interpersonal dynamics, allowing you to experience deeper, more meaningful connections in every aspect of your life.
Enhance Your Relationships
Victoria
“When I began working with Amber, I felt like I wasn’t safe being sexually expressed. I worried that women would hate me, and I would subject myself to a lot of things that felt terrifying; so, I dimmed my light. . . and I avoided deep connection.
I’m AMAZED how Amber was able to help me deeply connect to the power of my sexual energy in a way that has shown me NOT ONLY IS IT SAFE, BUT BEING FULLY EXPRESSED SEXUALLY IS WHAT WOMEN MOST WANT AND NEED FROM ME. She helped me simplify what was once so confusing. She guided me to feel powerful in the areas that used to make me shrink and deplete my energy.
She taught me how to trust that when I allow my sexuality to infuse into everything I do, the joy comes. . . the clarity comes. . . the creativity comes. . . the confidence comes. . . and life starts to feel like a fun place where I want to explore."
What other women have said about unlocking higher levels of success by embracing more pleasure in their lives through working with me...
Alysha
“I had heard of somatic healing but never really practiced it. It is so amazing how much difference it makes when you release through movement. I embraced somatic healing and learned amazing tools to utilize in my life. I started to attract and grow and my relationships improved.
What Amber shares is amazing. It's genuine and it's healing. The connection you have to feel seen, heard and loved is truly wonderful.
The tools you learn will heal your life in so many areas. And it's so exciting to step into the feminine energy and embrace it and love it.”
Rosa
“Working with Amber has been nothing short of AMAZING. Her ability to hold space with a complete energy of safety and compassion is priceless. My first session with her felt like talking to a close friend!
The depth of her ability to ask the questions to really bring clarity to the issue at hand that I came to her with was a game changer and she helped me in developing a plan to break through the blocks that I was struggling with. I can’t recommend her enough.”
Achieve newfound confidence in your intimate life and work with two pre-recorded practices, taking you from the initial exploration of self-pleasure to the powerful practice of sex magick.
These practices are your tools for enhancing your personal satisfaction, deepening your connection with yourself, and manifesting through pleasure.
2 Pre-Recorded Practices
Receive personalized guidance tailored just for you.
These sessions are your golden ticket to accelerating you towards emotional liberation and creative empowerment, offering intimate, bespoke support that can pivot your life towards ease, pleasure and joy.
Pay In Full
Total Value
$4919
*Total value with the VIP Upgrade $6919*
I’m a morning person & avid water drinker. I’m here to help you discover your core essence and build the bridge between where you are now and where you desire to be.
My mission is to contribute to a world where women feel safe to harness the wisdom of their bodies and express themselves fully, so they experience more fun, joy, and pleasure in their daily lives.
And I'm all about making big concepts feel cozy and approachable.
I’ve helped dozens of women go from disconnected to claiming the BIGNESS of who they are through the landscape of their nervous system.
This is your toolbox for not just navigating but thriving in every aspect of life, from the boardroom to the bedroom.
I bring a rich mix of knowledge to guide you through crafting a life filled with ease, pleasure, and those soul-stirring 'aha' moments.
You get to experience daily satisfaction, ignited joy in your relationships, and tuning into your body's wisdom.
Sexuality coach, pleasure alchemist & embodiment guide for women.
hey, i'm amber Kay.
I have a background deeply rooted in the transformative VITA Method, EFT tapping, intuitive mapping of Human Design, and energy work, I offer a powerful arsenal for the badass business woman seeking more than just success.
PLUS...
I’ve experienced how difficult it can feel to be in deep healing spaces with other women. I didn’t want to look crazy or out of control. I didn’t think I would be accepted if they saw the parts of me that felt so shameful.
And after hiding for so long it started getting really hard NOT to hide. I was always the strong one, the one that was “put together.”
On paper everything looked “perfect.” I had the doting husband, I homeschooled my son, ran events and retreats, worked with clients, took care of the house, I showed up for my friends, took care of our financial health, went on trips for my own growth and always had my own coach. I had success in almost all areas of my life. But there was still something missing… and if you’re reading this you might be experiencing that feeling now.
I loved the opportunity to host spaces for other women but I felt like no one would ever have the capacity to hold me in all of my shadow AND my light. They wouldn’t be able to handle me.
Then I attended a retreat as part of the Sex, Love and Relationship certification program I was doing. I was in a gorgeous jungle with 100 women being invited to do the deepest work I had EVER done in my life.
Before our first process my teacher, Layla, shared something that really stuck, “This week is going to be intense and go into the depths because you cannot guide anyone into deeper work than you’ve done for yourself.”
So I got to make a choice for myself...
But why me? Because...
Would I choose it again? 1000% because through all the shaking, the screaming, the “ugly” crying, my body freezing in fear, the laughter... I was held fully, in all of me, which allowed me to hold myself, to see myself fully expressed, without fear.
My teacher was right, it has enhanced EVERY area of my life and I know it can do the same for you.
‘Repeat my pattern of only showing the parts I felt I could control’ OR ‘Evolve and allow myself to be fully seen.’ And with my body literally shaking... I chose the second option.
Dianne
“The thing is, my life is already good. It’s fine, I had no reason to complain. And yet I was bored and restless. I am single, and navigating how I want my future to look in the context of a relationship.
I’ve been exploring my sensuality and sexuality through movement practices. I had a lot of theoretical knowledge that wasn’t helping me heal or move forward. I needed help with the actual implementation.
And wow, SO MUCH was accomplished in our time together!!! So much integration of the sacred sexuality material that I had studied. So much integration of the masculine and feminine stories. So much childhood wounding brought forth and up and out and healed.
I am so impressed that Amber was able to hold space for me to go so deeply, and able to read the energy to know when to give me space to rest, and to adjust plans to correspond to my needs and abilities. It was a perfect dance. It was truly beautiful.”
Jannine
“Leading up to my session with Amber I noticed a panic arising in my body when having certain conversations with my husband. We were able to explore what was going on with my inner child and find ways to remedy the panic I was feeling.
By the end of the session, I felt SO MUCH BETTER. It truly is incredible how impactful her work is. Although I logically knew what was going on, I wasn't able to work through it until I had Amber's support.
The best part was, although we were exploring deep topics, Amber had a way of keeping things fun and light with lots of laughs mixed throughout.
Thank you Amber! I highly recommend anyone considering working with her to go for it! Amber's space holding is a beautiful balance of depth and lightness cocooned in a blanket of safety that gives you real, noticeable results.”
Marilee
"Working with Amber Kay provided so many breakthroughs and gifts, I hardly know where to start...
The best way I can say it is that it was like my soul received a soothing massage. She worked out the kinks, tight spots, and resistance that I didn't even know were there.
What I do know is that I felt so much better afterwards and that feeling has stayed. Amber helped me return to my center.
She does this work in the most beautiful, kind way. I felt held, guided, and respected through each step. It was gentle yet provided the most powerful impact. Amber's gifts transcend words, but work with her and you'll feel it. It's incredible and I'm so grateful to experience it!"
While UNLEASHED is designed to be enriching and enjoyable, your personal commitment and openness to the process are key to experiencing transformative results.
The program encourages active participation and self-exploration, but it's tailored to be nurturing and supportive, ensuring the effort you put in feels rewarding and not burdensome.
What kind of effort do I need to put in to see results?
Investing in UNLEASHED is investing in your personal and professional growth.
The program offers transformative tools and experiences that have a lasting impact on your life and well-being.
I offer payment plans to make it more accessible (including affirm).
This is an investment in a more fulfilled, empowered, and joyous you.
The program sounds great, but Is it worth the investment?
UNLEASHED is majorly focused on body based coaching. Of course there is always room for mindset work here too but that will only get you so far.
This container is specifically designed to integrate changes at a somatic level, ensuring that the shifts are not just cognitive but are deeply felt and lived in your body on a daily basis.
I'VE TRIED OTHER PROGRAMS BEFORE AND DIDN'T SEE MUCH CHANGE. HOW CAN I BE SURE UNLEASHED WILL BE DIFFERENT?
faq's
UNLEASHED is uniquely designed to empower you in both personal and professional spheres by fostering a deeper connection with your inner self.
Through a blend of practices, you'll learn to tap into your creative and erotic sovereignty, which not only elevates joy but also enhances your leadership and vision.
This holistic approach can enhance your capacity to hold more success and build meaningful relationships in your professional life, all from a place of balanced well-being.
How can unleashed specifically help in enhancing my personal and professional life?
UNLEASHED stands out due to its unique focus on body wisdom, sensual empowerment, and holistic well-being.
It's not just about cognitive understanding; it's about experiencing and embodying change.
This approach combines various techniques like somatic healing, inner child work, and sensual empowerment, all tailored to help you reclaim your power and pleasure in life.
How does UNLEASHED differ from other personal development programs?
This is decided once you and I have had our first call so I can feel into the energy to see who would be the best fit.
*These bonus calls are recorded.*
I'll send out a Doodle poll for you to fill out and from there I'll choose a standing call time.
Who are the guest experts?
When will the calls be held?
No, due to the nature of the container none of calls will be recorded.
Will the calls be recorded?
You can achieve all this and more. And, you won't be alone.
Experiencing more pleasure and orgasms
Returning to your center and having confidence in your ability to self-resource from your own energy.
Experiencing improved relationships in your life because you are more deeply connected with yourself
Awakening more creativity by being deeply connected to the power of your sexual energy
Alexa
“I would highly recommend working with Amber. Anyone can benefit from her work, if they are seeking to transform, be inspired, and wondering how to harness their sacred power.
Even women who feel as though they are quite knowledgeable--like myself-- have so much to learn from her. It is invaluable to learn from someone such as herself who truly does it all! She has her toes in so many esoteric teachings, pathways, and tool sets, it's truly incredible!
I cannot say enough about how much I love this woman. She is beautiful inside and out.”
Danny
“I've found some massive differences in how I just go through my daily life. Amber does such a great job with holding space for me and helping me process and see things from a different angle and different perspective.
I have gone through some big changes and big things coming up in my life. And I just don't think I'd be feeling as good as I do right now if it wasn't for her. So, I just wanted to thank her and if anyone's out there, just to let you know that she's the real deal, and I appreciate her so much."
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